The Simplicity of Relationships
I don't know why,but we all like to believe (consciously or subconsciously) that relationships are difficult.It is this belief,that translates into our actions and ends up making relationships complicated as hell! Sounds weird? May be. Over the years,I have realized that we as humans have developed and nurtured this tendency to complicate and magnify things in our minds.With so much happening around us,so many demands to fulfill,so many personas to attend to; we cannot keep things simple. Unfortunately, one of the things that is essential for our existence, our relationships,end up suffering. When we have a train of thoughts running in our minds,when we are busy building up scenarios in our heads,how many times do we actually communicate properly as to what's happening? Instead,we put our guards up-scream,shout,hurt the other person and then assume that he/she will understand. Really? ...